if is such a poisonous word.
if keep dragging us back to the past where it hold nothing for our future
it is "was" not "will"
as we regret something from our past, we always come out with if solution. hoping for something hopeless. after every deed we always have this doubt of "if"thinking that we might be able to do better or choosing on a better option. still no matter how hard we give ourselves another option, nothing going to change.
looking forward to the future, knowing that we have the power to choose,
that question keep on popping up. of the uncertainty of what might happen.
what if I fail?
what if I get hurt?
what if I there is someone better?
what if I don't like what I do later?
“Every choice in life sets us on a different path and carries its own set of “what ifs” and consequences that we could worry about, but what’s the use? Rather than plaguing our thoughts with the unknown, we should focus on and accept only what we do know – and all we know is the path we’re currently on.”
making the decision about our future is full of uncertainty and to choose again for the past is full of regret. what define life is now, and making the move to be better at the very moment.
what shine the most is now!!