what you need to learn before even thinking about getting married;
- prepare for the worst.
- willing to accept other as they are, if not TEACH them how to be one NOT FORCE!!
- TRY to learn giving your self to other.
- accept the family as that come with your partner as much as you want them to accept yours.
- learn to be Penyabar, BERTANGGUNGJAWAB, SUDI MENGALAH, you don't have to win all the time.. accept that.
- there are another person beside that gain the happiness or sadness in your marriage..not just two of YOU.